Dec
12

Get Ready to Party on December 18

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Don’t forget and miss out on all the fun for kids and adults: Our Hanukkah party is coming up on Sunday, December 18, at the Brookside Community Center in Mendham. We will be making some Hanukkah crafts, including beeswax Hanukkah candles, playing Hanukkah bingo for prizes, watching some Hanukkah performances, and of course, eating latkes!

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Dec
07

Sunday School News

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We have had a terrific start to Sunday School! We have 26 students divided into four classes.

Debbie Arntzen is having a great time with the K-2 class. She is sharing the holiday and Our Community curriculum with the students as they learn about the importance of culture and Humanism in all of our lives.  Beth Brilliant has returned as our teacher for the 3rd-4th grade class, and she is doing a terrific job with our Jewish History curriculum.

We are happy to have Lynn Berman return to our Sunday school teaching staff as our teacher for the 5th-6th graders. She is teaching her students about the History of Humanistic Judaism and Ethics.

We have seven students in our B’nai Mitzvah program, which is led by Lisa and Michael Littman. They are working towards achieving their Humanistic Judaism competencies through research, discussion and social action. We extend our congratulations to the B’Nai Mitzvah students who have recently graduated: Andrew Schlusberg, Jacob Steinberg, Gabrielle Mund & Peri Levine. We hope to see them back for adult education and congregation events!

After celebrating Rosh Hashanah and Yom Kippur with our congregation, the Levine family hosted a wonderful Sukkot celebration. We learned about the meaning of autumn and the importance of the harvest while sharing a special day together!

We are looking forward to our Hanukah party on December 18 when our classes will perform for us. We will have fun activities, arts and crafts, games and good food for the whole congregation to enjoy.

We are continuing to plan educational and entertaining activities for Sunday School.  We are encouraging all parents to participate in our Sunday School program to enrich the experience for the whole family. We look forward to any feedback, comments or suggestions from our Sunday School community.

Stephanie Zenna & Blaine Riddle
Sunday School Committee Chairs
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Our B’nai Mitzvah candidates recently provided us with the following updates on the social action projects they are leading this year:

Alzheimer’s Association

I am raising money to fight Alzheimer’s Disease. It is a heartbreaking disease that affects a lot of families. I was the team captain for Team Dennis at the Alzheimer’s Association Walk to End Alzheimer’s on Sunday, October 23, 2011, at Van Saun Park in Paramus, New Jersey. I started Team Dennis in honor of my cousin, Dennis N. Giordano, who died this past May at age 66 of early onset Alzheimer’s. He was a teacher and also president of the New Jersey Education Association, the teacher’s union. More information can be found at www.alz.org/nj/.

Pitch In for Baseball

My Bar Mitzvah Social Action Project is going great. I have been collecting new or gently used baseball and softball equipment to donate to an organization called “Pitch In For Baseball.” PIFB is a non-profit organization whose mission is to improve the lives of children around the world through the life skills and self-esteem that playing baseball can help provide. Many children all over the world have benefited from more than 125,000 pieces of equipment distributed by PIFB. I chose this organization for my social action project because I want to help children who love the game of baseball as much as I do.

So far, I have collected many baseball and softball mitts, bats and bags and I hope to continue collecting equipment up until my Bar Mitzvah in June 2012.  In addition or in the alternative, I can also accept money donations to forward to PIFB. I have my own personal Pitch In For Baseball fundraising page that you can log onto for online donations. Please see www.active.com/donate/pifb/srz for more information.

I look forward to receiving your donations so that, together, we can help improve the baseball experience for children around the world.

Eyes for the Needy

My Bat Mitzvah Social Action is coming along!  I have been collecting used eyeglasses for Eyes for the Needy for several months now.  I would like to take this chance to remind anyone who has an old pair of glasses sitting around collecting dust to bring them to the Hanukkah party so I can donate them along with the other dozen I have collected.  I am hoping to reach three dozen pairs of glasses by the end of summer.

Thank you so much.

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Dec
07

A Report from the Treasurer

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The financial position of CHJMC is on track with our budget.  Please remember your next installment for membership is due.  You can mail the payment to: Susie Levine; PO Box 120; Bedminster, NJ 07921.  If you have any questions, please contact me at:susielevine@nac.net.

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Nov
21

PRESIDENT’S FALL MESSAGE

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Dear CHJMC Members,

The season of autumn is upon us.  In our everyday lives, we often refer to autumn as “fall,” simply because the leaves are “falling.”  This autumn, I would like us to look at autumn as a “rising.”

We all have personal obstacles to overcome. Some may seem more challenging than others. Each of us deals with those personal obstacles in our own way. The common thread is the ability to look within ourselves, to reach deep into our hearts and souls and find the drive to face our obstacles and work to overcome them. It is this drive, in part, that makes us human. What turns this human drive into being a “humanistic” drive is our common desire to help our fellow man.

This autumn has brought along many obstacles.  We endured a hurricane that brought intense flooding, loss of power and major damage to many in our community.  We endured an intense October snowstorm dumping over a foot and a half of snow and knocking out power to many for a week or longer.

Throughout these autumn obstacles, we as a congregation, and as a community, reached within ourselves to overcome our own obstacles, while put ting some of our own problems aside to lend a helping hand to our communities and friends.  It is this innate ability that not only makes us human but also makes us humanistic.

As autumn nears its end and winter looms in front of us, I encourage all of us to continue to rise and not fall in the face of adversity. I encourage everyone to continue to be humanistic and not let our friends, our neighbors and our communities fall but to help them rise in any way we can.

This time of year also brings with it a time of giving thanks. Be thankful for what you have, be thankful for what you can give and be thankful for the ability to “rise.”

Humbly yours,

Steve Sussman
CHJMC President
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Last weekend, I attended the second SHJ Northeast Regional Meeting.  I was one of several attendees from our congregation.  This report focuses on my experiences and take-aways from the meeting.  There were separate note takers for different sessions, and this discussion does not in anyway replace those discussion notes.
The meeting started with ice breakers followed by singing.  This was followed by a pair of sessions separated by socializing and eating.   I attended sessions on membership and leadership.   In each session,  the leader suggested topics and then the attendees discussed their experiences around these topics.
PROGRAMMING SESSION
The programming session looked at programming overall and each congregation’s success stories.
Havdalahs/Shabbats
  • The attendees seemed to have a much more formal approach to Havdalahs/Shabbats than we do.  Our approach in terms of allowing the host to determine the type (date, Havdalah vs. Shabbat, inclusive or kids only) seemed novel to many of the attendees.
Successful Events
  • Tu Bishvat: Planting parsley in January
  • Fair Trade Bazaar
  • Honoring member’s talents:  Events focussed around art, music and poetry.
  • Empty Bowls event: Artist donates bowl, members fill it with soup and sell it to other members as a fundraiser.
  • Movie Night with Jewish-related topics.  People did not want to see Holocaust movies or Israeli war movies.  Some example movies:
  • The Bards Visit
  • Weapons of the Spirit
  • Sing alongs.  Some reported very good success with them; others not so much.
Social Action Events
  • Everyone agreed that in order to have social action events, there needs to be a strong consistent leader championing them.
  • People are already volunteering their time to be on the congregation board and that is social action enough.
  • Too many social action events during the year are not a good thing.
  • Where do people hold events: This was mixed between someone’s house and a rented space.  Everyone agreed that for the most part events at someone’s house cannot be advertised.
Advertising Events
  • There seemed to a general consensus that advertising in the local town papers is not effective because they will only be limited to a house. One group used radio ads on NPR.
Political Topics
  • There was a discussion of programming around political topics, such as Zionism or Israel.  We indicated that we stay away from the topic.  I discussed this with others during the social hour and it looks like it can be a dangerous topic for a congregation.  In the past congregations have split over these kinds of issues.
LEADERSHIP SESSION
There was general confusion among several participants about what this session was about.  The religious leaders seemed to think that leadership was about religious leadership. Others thought it was about how to maintain an active board and grow leadership in a congregation.
Some highlights from this session were:
  • Several congregations do not have religious leaders but lay leaders like us.
  • One congregation forms “Try Teams” of a few members who run events.
  • Most congregations have a nominating committee like us.
  • They recommend that we have an SHJ Institute Scholar in residence for a weekend to give talks and advise the congregation.
Matthew Harelick
Secretary
Nov
12

Veterans’ Day Tribute

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My first thought about the date 11-11-11 was, “Oh, what lovely prime numbers!”  But I digress…

Many Americans know that Veterans’ Day began as something different.  First, it was Armistice Day, invented to celebrate the end of The Great War, supposedly at the 11th minute of the 11th hour of the 11th day of the 11th month 93 years ago in 1918.  I lately had the thrill of discovering what that event meant to one who had lived at the time.

I read a letter from my grandfather, Is Agree (a man whose name is two verbs!), written to his then sweetheart, my future grandmother, Mary Hurwitz (he wrote Marie) from his home in Astoria, NY to her at her cousins’ home “in the mountains” where she was “taking a cure”.  After several lines of mundane courtship comment, he wrote the following:

“Just as I have ended the above paragraph, there came the sound of factory and steamer sirens blowing loud enough to be heard I believe all over the country.  Perhaps you are hearing them now, for surely if there is any kind of a siren in your locality it has joined the rest in proclaiming the advent of peace.

If you have read this morning’s newspaper you know that Marshal Foch was to hand over the terms of the Allies for an armistice to the German mission sent for that purpose and the blowing of these sirens is to announce that the terms of the Allies were accepted by Germany.

Think, imagine if you can the meaning of this announcement.  How many tears of joy will this announcement bring forth in the eyes of the millions of Mothers, Fathers, Sisters, Brothers and Sweethearts of the fighting men all over the world.  How many more tears of sorrow and grief will this bring forth from the eyes of those who have had the misfortune to have contributed the life of one who was dear to them, to the death toll that this greatest international human butchery called war, has extracted.  And how many hearts all over the world will throb with hope that, with the passing of these clouds of fomented hatred and strife, there will appear a new horizon.  A horizon that will disclose signs of the coming of a freer and better world.  A world in which there will be no room for strife to attain things at the expense of others, no room for hatred both individual and national.”

Here, the writing is interrupted, continuing below the entry of the following days’ date.

“The above I had written you yesterday and, I would have undoubtedly finished this letter yesterday if not for the extraordinary rush on the sale of American flags, which had caused me to lay this letter aside until now.  Now I am thinking of whether I should send it to you or not.  The news of yesterday has been reported false and although it is probable that in a few days we will hear the same news again and this time well confirmed, yet what I have written above seems out of place…”

Fortunately, he did finish the letter (with more mundane matters) and send it.  It was written on November 7 and 8, 1918.

I came away from my encounter with this letter thinking:

For a 24 year-old who had been speaking English for barely half his life, my Grandpa was eloquent!

Why is the story of the “false” announcement of peace never related in our histories, when it clearly had a huge impact on the people who heard it

Was Grandpa’s (and others’) joy at the final announcement of the peace when it did come diminished by this experience, as I suspect from reading this it may have been?

And today I reflect.  The Great War, of course, gave way to a greater one.  And on and on and on.  The progress of the ideals held a century ago and the hopes they created has been fitful, and humanity has never overcome its propensity for butchery.  So this Armistice Day, in memory of my grandfather, who wasn’t a veteran, and my father, who was; and in tribute to those who lived and those who died, those who won and those who lost, those who fought and those who refused to fight; I reiterate my grandfather’s hope for an end to war.

Rob Agree
Vice President & Ceremonial Leader
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Marvin Rosenblum served on the CHJMC board as President from 2002-2003.  He died September 27, 2011 at age 80.   You can read the complete obituary from New Jersey Jewish News.

Oct
23

2011 Holiday Food Drive Results

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2011 Holiday Food Drive Results

Thank you to everyone who helped to make the 2011 High Holiday gatherings and services a huge success.  It was truly a congregation-wide effort.
I am also pleased to report that we donated about 350 pounds of food to The Interfaith Food Pantry.  I think this was one of our largest donations to date. The director at the food pantry was quite apperciative.  I think we helped to stock their shelves pretty well!
Craig Schlusberg
Holiday Chair
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Oct
23

Northeast Regional Details

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If you liked the last Regional gathering, we think you’ll have a great time at this one.  We’re providing sessions that were voted for.  We’ve provided separate lunch time and social time.  And the lunch will include vegetarian options.
We’re pleased that the lineup for November 5th’s Northeast Regional is fully stocked with expert presenters, leaders, and facilitators, who have already made their mark on the movement. 
 
Jon Levine is co-chair of SHJ’s Leadership Committee.  Frank Tamburello is Rabbi of the Westchester CHJ.  Dana Preis is President of CHJ-CT.  Devera and Michael Witkin have demonstrated their talents at SHJ and the City Congregation.  Michael is Treasurer of that Congregation.  Barry Dancis is a member of the Machar ( Washington , D.C. ) Education Committee and past Chair of the Jewish Children’s Folkshul Education Committee where he spearheaded the development of a new curriculum.  Lucy Katz is Program Co-Chair and Ritual Chair of CHJ-CT.  Music leader Ruth Levy-Schudroff has inspired Westchester with song. Gladys Maged is KB Boston’s official ice breaker.
 
Rhoda Kleiman has arranged the same great location, with luncheon offerings of standard and vegetarian fare.  And there will be plenty of opportunity for schmoozing.  So, how does one sign up?  Use the form below.  And below that is the program outline.
 
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North East Regional Humanistic Jewish Get Together.  Saturday November 5, 11 AM
 
Name_______________________________ Email: ____________________________
 
Address _____________________________ Phone: _______________________
 
____________________________________ Number of attendees (include names & info) ___
Amount enclosed ($10 per person) _____ Make check to WCHJ
Mail to: WCHJ /Kleiman, 165 West End Ave ; Apt 12D, New York , NY 10023 . 
(212-724-7840 irkleiman@verizon.net)
 
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Ice Breakers, Music, Workshops, Lunch, Havdalah, Camaraderie !
 
Cost: $10 which includes lunch.
 
Locale: Community Unitarian Church of White Plains ; 468 Rosedale Avenue ; White Plains , NY 10605 .  (A few blocks off the Hutchinson River Parkway , Exit 25)
 
Housing Coordinator for out-of-towners wishing over-nights:
Michael Witkin, 917-951-6554 michael.witkin@gmail.com
 
Program Coordinator: Cary Shaw, 203-849-8978, caryshaw@optonline.net
 
Open to all members of the Society for Humanistic Judaism and its congregations.
 
                        PROGRAM
Intro
            Assemble. Coffee/tea
            Music for and with everyone – Ruth Levy-Schudroff, music leader at Westchester CHJ
            Ice Breakers – Gladys Maged, Board Member of Boston’s Kahal B’raira
 
Lunch
 
Workshops – Cycle 1
            Programming – Lucy Katz, Program Co-Chair, and Ritual Chair of CHJ-CT.
                        Developing programs to suit the diverse interests within a congregation
 
            Finance – Devera Witkin with Michael Witkin, Treasurer of The City Congregation
                        Financing the Congregation’s activities, how obtained, how allocated.
 
            Extending Teen Involvement — Barry Dancis
                        Do Class B’nai Mitzvahs Cause Premature Evacuation at Our Schools? 
                        What works best?
                       
Social Break
 
Workshops – Cycle 2
            Leadership – Jon Levine, Co-Chair of SHJ’s Leadership Committee,
                        and Dana  Preis, President of CHJ-Connecticut
                        What’s the pathway for leadership in congregations? 
                        How do members become leaders?
                        Based on survey results, what is the demand for rabbinic leadership?
 
            Integrating Interfaith Families – Rabbi Frank Tamburello, Westchester CHJ
                        Bringing people together.  How do diverse families and individuals experience
                                     connection with Judaism and humanism?
 
Coming Together
                        Workshop summaries
                        Day’s overall wrap-up
 
Havdalah – Rabbi Frank Tamburello, Westchester CHJ
                                    & the Committee of the Whole
 
Optional dinner out with group afterwards.  Please indicate level of potential interest to Rhoda Kleiman(irkleiman@verizon.net).
 
And here’s detail on some of the sessions:
 
PROGRAMMING facilitated by Lucy Katz.
Lucy Katz is Program Co-Chair, and Ritual Chair of CHJ-CT.
 
What programs bring your community together?   How does your programming meet the needs of different groups, for example young parents, singles and elders? How do you balance Jewish content with content of general interest?  What are your most successful programs? Least successful? Where do you get speakers? Extra funding if needed? Do you collaborate with other organizations on programs?  What programming problems has your congregation met and how were they resolved? What help would you like from SHJ for your programming? How do you publicize programs?
LEADERSHIP facilitated by Jon Levine and Dana Preis.
Jon Levine is the head of SHJ’s Leadership Committee, and the SHJ Rep for Boston ’s Kahal Braira.  Dana Preis is President of CHJ-Connecticut.
 
Who are the leaders in your congregation?  How do members become leaders?  Who chooses them?  Who trains them?  What happens when they burn out?  Is rabbinic leadership the congressional promised land?  Is it a way station(s) on the road to congregational identity?
How much does it cost to have a madrikh write and lead a service?  What are the issues when a member of the congregation moves into a Madrikh position?  Based on survey results, what is the demand for rabbinic leadership within the society?
 
 
EXTENDING TEEN INVOLVEMENT facilitated by Barry Martin Dancis
 
This workshop will look at ways to keep teens actively involved in Sunday school programs until they graduate from High School as well as look at activities such as Class B’nai Mitzvahs that signal teens that their schooling is over. Keeping teens longer is likely to impact school curricula and suggestions for addressing the impact will be discussed. There also will be time at the end to share what works and does not work at your own institutions.